Don’t worry if you make mistakes. Only people who dare, try, and persevere, complete tasks and achieve success.
It is so comfortable to be passive, make no effort, and stick to the familiar. However, by doing so, we allow external influences shape your life.
Daring, trying new things, and making changes, seem intimidating. It is more comfortable to suffer, complain, and stay in the same place.
Why Daring Is Intimidating?
- You afraid you might make mistakes.
- You are afraid to look ridiculous.
- You want to avoid criticism.
- There is a lack of self-esteem.
- There is a lack of self-confidence.
If you wish to let the above list intimidate you, and therefore, be unhappy, complain, and stay where you are, this is your choice. However, if you want to live a greater life, you should consider taking a step beyond your fears and start daring.
It is not so difficult to do.
It is a matter of attitude. It is a matter of changing your mindset. As the saying goes, ‘it is all in the mind’.
After the first step, it would seem less intimating to dare, even if you make mistakes and bad choices.
All people who achieved success, any kind of success, dared to try. They did mistakes, and they failed over and again, but they did not give up. Continue reading
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“Everyone was saying boxing’s good for you and it’s really good for letting out aggression. That really saved me, because I was on the verge of punching someone. Being able to punch someone with pads was certainly easier.”
“For me personally, my brother, you know, bless him, he was a huge support to me. He kept saying this is not right, this is not normal, you need to talk to (someone) about stuff, it’s OK,” he said
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Getting angry is a part of everyone’s daily life and it can occur as a result of a variety of happenings. It could be that your colleague just pissed you off by talking bad behind your back or someone just illegally jumps ahead of you on a queue. The first thing that comes to your mind when this happens is how you can pay them back. Getting revenge is not the best when you’re angry as karma usually gets around, especially when you’re cheated. In such circumstances, it’s best you calm yourself down. But how do you get to do that?
Follow these 4 simple tips to calm yourself down when you’re angry and never giving a thought to revenge.
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Triple MG C.E.O, Ubi Franklin took to his Instagram page to advice men to desist from coveting another man’s wife. He wrote;
“You are free to choose but your are not free from the consequences of your choice. Men leave another man’s wife alone they’re A lot of women to go around close your eyes towards another mans wife. #respect #selfcontrol #fearofGod”